Wisdom, as you may be well aware, is a state of mind acquired over a period of time. No one is born with an inherent sense of wisdom. It is learned and developed in our minds as we grow, and as we make mistakes in our lives. A life without mistakes would be a fairly redundant life as there would be absolutely no scope for growth. But this process can harm those that mean the most to us. Be aware of your actions and your thoughts. Admit your wrongs and in becoming wise you must not repeat the mistakes. Goodnight and God Bless each of you.